There are pre-tribulation, mid-tribulation and post-tribulation theories in abundance. I don't want to over-simplifiy, but doesn't it just make good sense to BE READY???
1) Absolute authoritarianism without meaningful accountability.
2) No tolerance for questions or critical inquiry.
3) No meaningful financial disclosure regarding budget, expenses such as an independently audited financial statement.
4) Unreasonable fear about the outside world, such as impending catastrophe, evil conspiracies and persecutions.
5) There is no legitimate reason to leave, former followers are always wrong in leaving, negative or even evil.
6) Former members often relate the same stories of abuse and reflect a similar pattern of grievances.
7) The group/leader will use intimidation techniques and/or public humiliation to retain members.
8) Followers feel they can never be "good enough".
9) The group/leader is always right.
Phillipians 2:12 ¶ "Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling" It is NOT the job of another (church/leader/pastor/priest) to do it for you!.
Ten signs of a safe church/leader:
1) A safe group/leader will answer your questions without becoming judgmental and punitive.
2)A safe group/leader will disclose information such as finances and often offer an independently audited financial statement regarding budget and expenses. Safe groups and leaders will tell you more than you want to know.
3) A safe group/leader is often democratic, sharing decision making and encouraging accountability and oversight.
4) A safe group/leader may have disgruntled former followers, but will not vilify, excommunicate and forbid others from associating with them.
5)A safe group/leader will not have a paper trail of overwhelmingly negative records, books, articles and statements about them.
6)A safe group/leader will encourage family communication, community interaction and existing friendships and not feel threatened.
7)A safe group/leader will recognize reasonable boundaries and limitations when dealing with others.
8) A safe group/leader will encourage critical thinking, individual autonomy and feelings of self-esteem.
9) A safe group/leader will admit failings and mistakes and accept constructive criticism and advice.
10) A safe group/leader will not be the only source of knowledge and learning excluding everyone else, but value dialogue and the free exchange of ideas.
Good leaders are humble and open, and not easily offended.